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Excerpt From “Dont Be A Dumb Bitch” Chapter 4 Predators Prey
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PREDATORS PREY
You ever hear someone say that you’re not supposed to go food shopping when you’re hungry because you’ll go in the supermarket buying up all kinds of things that you don’t need? The same rules apply for these men. Don’t go looking for a man when you’re lonely and horny. Men can sniff out a horny, lonely, desperate woman a mile away. It doesn’t matter how reserved you try to be. It doesn’t matter the kind of woman that you “claim” to be if you’re not living it, it holds no weight. Women suffer from two diseases. One is “Toomuchdickinyaitis” and that is when a woman is just doing too much. You’re having sex with different partners and for no real reason other than to fill a void. The other is “Lackadickaphobia” You get no dick and when you do, you latch on to that dick like it’s the last pair of Red Bottoms that you are gonna find on sale for $100. And a predator can always tell when a woman is suffering from “Lackadickaphobia.” We be so thirsty and don’t even realize it, especially if he got that good shit. Men pick up on the body language and the subtle need and hints that we throw without even realizing how obvious we are being. We will let this predator come to our house in the middle of the night, or we will go to his whenever he calls. If we have plans, we will cancel them if that man wants to see us. We leave food in the microwave and the key under the mat for this dude. We let him hit it whenever he wants to hit it and we don’t ask him for shit in return. That qualifies you as a dumb bitch. Men need you to ask, they need you to set some standards, they need to know that this woman is not about “that life” whatever that life may be. Even if your lying to yourself, set some standards for this man to follow. But when you are dickmatized, suffering from Dickmatization, you just forget every damn thing your mama taught you. Dickmatization is very real but like most addictions, you can beat this ladies! Never trust some good dick and a smile, stay strong because men are always on predator mode looking for that easy prey, all day. And the hard working woman with so much on her plate that can’t find a date is the first one to get eaten. *Pun Intended
Most men are always on predator mode and they can almost always smell desperation on a woman like a dog senses fear. Maintain that deep desire and yearning to have another in your life or you will be someone’s prey and it won’t be pretty. Hungry lonely pussy and good dick is a recipe for dicksaster! Lord have mercy you will be outside looking for his ass in the day time with a flash light, a mattress tied to your back, waving your wallet in the air if your ass ain’t careful. So whatever you do, do not desperately seek out anyone other than yourself. Don’t let loneliness steer you down the wrong road.
Okay on a serious note, lol, the problem is that women equate sex with love. No matter how much we think we don’t, we do. We love with our pussies and get emotional when dick is involved. It is almost impossible to have a consistent sexual relationship with someone and not catch some kind of feelings. And when we catch these feelings, we begin to feel as if the man is obligated to us once we allow him inside of us, and that’s partially true. But it is also a gamble. All because we feel this way doesn’t mean that the man will understand it and reciprocate. As adults, I think that we all need to be fucking for a purpose bigger than money, a good time or to get over someone else. And as women, the older we get the more vulnerable we get. The average fuck is not just an average fuck, no matter how much we try to think that it is. Our needs and wants change as we get older/mature and with that comes emotion. Our desire and hunger for more will of course keep any man coming around for seconds and thirds. This man is now getting some good hungry pussy from a woman who wants nothing more than to feel a man’s touch, because she is tired of playing with toys and she needs affection. After all, she works hard and deserves to let her hair down. The sexual chemistry will most likely be phenomenal. But this woman confuses the time that the man spends with her with the emotion of love. She thinks that this man is always around her because he cares about her. Maybe he does begin to care as time goes on but the relationship isn’t built on that. It’s built on lust and there is no relationship in the world that can grow on that note. You have to be real with yourself ladies and get it through your head that this man is around you because your body is always calling. He wants that pussy first and foremost and the moment you try to switch gears he is outta there! The passion, lust and chemistry that is created in that bedroom needs to remain right there next to the wet spot. It is what it is and because we are so “emotional” we refuse to believe that. At what point did love come into the picture missy pooh? You love the sex, you love the intimacy, you love how he makes you feel physically and sexually but you have to learn how to separate your love of the sexual aspect of the “relationship” from the reality of what it is really about! It’s about a hungry person getting fed and that goes both ways! You need to stop cummin’ from your heart and learn how to cum with just your vagina alone.
Lady, he does not love you nor does he want to be in a relationship with you. He is in lust with you. He is a predator and he has swooped down on his prey and demolished it. You allowed yourself to be used. You put your scent out there for a hungry dog to sniff you out and rip your meat to shreds and as soon as you understand the position you hold the better off you will be. You cannot be mad at this man when it was you that gave him the easy entry into the basement of your pussy.
In conclusion, just know that being single does not mean that you have to be dumb or desperate. It’s actually the best time for you to get to know yourself and sort things out in your head. Take time to get over that last heartbreak, work on your esteem if it’s low and spend time with your friends and family. Think about your future and what you want to do. Ponder on the mistakes you made and learn from then. Most of all being single helps you practice self-discipline. When you practice and maintain self-discipline, men will respect you more, yearn for you more and want to be around you for reasons other than sex. And it’s not to say that you are a bad person, you’re just being vulnerable and some men often take advantage of that. Get control of your heart and hormones so you can date without all of the vulnerability and bullshit. If you’re going to have a hot passionate sexual affair with someone, so be it but leave your feelings and emotions where? *points to ass* back there!
cHECK HER OUT here: http://byayanaellis.com/
Excerpt From “Dont Be A Dumb Bitch” Chapter 4 Predators Prey
4
PREDATORS PREY
You ever hear someone say that you’re not supposed to go food shopping when you’re hungry because you’ll go in the supermarket buying up all kinds of things that you don’t need? The same rules apply for these men. Don’t go looking for a man when you’re lonely and horny. Men can sniff out a horny, lonely, desperate woman a mile away. It doesn’t matter how reserved you try to be. It doesn’t matter the kind of woman that you “claim” to be if you’re not living it, it holds no weight. Women suffer from two diseases. One is “Toomuchdickinyaitis” and that is when a woman is just doing too much. You’re having sex with different partners and for no real reason other than to fill a void. The other is “Lackadickaphobia” You get no dick and when you do, you latch on to that dick like it’s the last pair of Red Bottoms that you are gonna find on sale for $100. And a predator can always tell when a woman is suffering from “Lackadickaphobia.” We be so thirsty and don’t even realize it, especially if he got that good shit. Men pick up on the body language and the subtle need and hints that we throw without even realizing how obvious we are being. We will let this predator come to our house in the middle of the night, or we will go to his whenever he calls. If we have plans, we will cancel them if that man wants to see us. We leave food in the microwave and the key under the mat for this dude. We let him hit it whenever he wants to hit it and we don’t ask him for shit in return. That qualifies you as a dumb bitch. Men need you to ask, they need you to set some standards, they need to know that this woman is not about “that life” whatever that life may be. Even if your lying to yourself, set some standards for this man to follow. But when you are dickmatized, suffering from Dickmatization, you just forget every damn thing your mama taught you. Dickmatization is very real but like most addictions, you can beat this ladies! Never trust some good dick and a smile, stay strong because men are always on predator mode looking for that easy prey, all day. And the hard working woman with so much on her plate that can’t find a date is the first one to get eaten. *Pun Intended
Most men are always on predator mode and they can almost always smell desperation on a woman like a dog senses fear. Maintain that deep desire and yearning to have another in your life or you will be someone’s prey and it won’t be pretty. Hungry lonely pussy and good dick is a recipe for dicksaster! Lord have mercy you will be outside looking for his ass in the day time with a flash light, a mattress tied to your back, waving your wallet in the air if your ass ain’t careful. So whatever you do, do not desperately seek out anyone other than yourself. Don’t let loneliness steer you down the wrong road.
Okay on a serious note, lol, the problem is that women equate sex with love. No matter how much we think we don’t, we do. We love with our pussies and get emotional when dick is involved. It is almost impossible to have a consistent sexual relationship with someone and not catch some kind of feelings. And when we catch these feelings, we begin to feel as if the man is obligated to us once we allow him inside of us, and that’s partially true. But it is also a gamble. All because we feel this way doesn’t mean that the man will understand it and reciprocate. As adults, I think that we all need to be fucking for a purpose bigger than money, a good time or to get over someone else. And as women, the older we get the more vulnerable we get. The average fuck is not just an average fuck, no matter how much we try to think that it is. Our needs and wants change as we get older/mature and with that comes emotion. Our desire and hunger for more will of course keep any man coming around for seconds and thirds. This man is now getting some good hungry pussy from a woman who wants nothing more than to feel a man’s touch, because she is tired of playing with toys and she needs affection. After all, she works hard and deserves to let her hair down. The sexual chemistry will most likely be phenomenal. But this woman confuses the time that the man spends with her with the emotion of love. She thinks that this man is always around her because he cares about her. Maybe he does begin to care as time goes on but the relationship isn’t built on that. It’s built on lust and there is no relationship in the world that can grow on that note. You have to be real with yourself ladies and get it through your head that this man is around you because your body is always calling. He wants that pussy first and foremost and the moment you try to switch gears he is outta there! The passion, lust and chemistry that is created in that bedroom needs to remain right there next to the wet spot. It is what it is and because we are so “emotional” we refuse to believe that. At what point did love come into the picture missy pooh? You love the sex, you love the intimacy, you love how he makes you feel physically and sexually but you have to learn how to separate your love of the sexual aspect of the “relationship” from the reality of what it is really about! It’s about a hungry person getting fed and that goes both ways! You need to stop cummin’ from your heart and learn how to cum with just your vagina alone.
Lady, he does not love you nor does he want to be in a relationship with you. He is in lust with you. He is a predator and he has swooped down on his prey and demolished it. You allowed yourself to be used. You put your scent out there for a hungry dog to sniff you out and rip your meat to shreds and as soon as you understand the position you hold the better off you will be. You cannot be mad at this man when it was you that gave him the easy entry into the basement of your pussy.
In conclusion, just know that being single does not mean that you have to be dumb or desperate. It’s actually the best time for you to get to know yourself and sort things out in your head. Take time to get over that last heartbreak, work on your esteem if it’s low and spend time with your friends and family. Think about your future and what you want to do. Ponder on the mistakes you made and learn from then. Most of all being single helps you practice self-discipline. When you practice and maintain self-discipline, men will respect you more, yearn for you more and want to be around you for reasons other than sex. And it’s not to say that you are a bad person, you’re just being vulnerable and some men often take advantage of that. Get control of your heart and hormones so you can date without all of the vulnerability and bullshit. If you’re going to have a hot passionate sexual affair with someone, so be it but leave your feelings and emotions where? *points to ass* back there!
cHECK HER OUT here: http://byayanaellis.com/
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